now that we've grown older, my friends and i never shy away from any topic and we always come back to the only problem we'd like to face head on: LOVE.
is this it? how do i know? am i, really? what am i to do?, as far as i know, are the typical questions worth asking and worthy of a long e-mail.
i always say, love is like an orgasm. you just know that's it. if you're a teeny bit unsure, chances are, that's not it.
told one of my friends who is a relationship newbie that it's so easy to fall and be in love but it's not easy to have a good relationship. you have to build on trust and respect and friendship. and oh yeah, faith, hope, and love. have realized that the foundation of your relationship shouldn't be that wonderful moment when, finally, you've found yourselves kissing by the doorway and can't seem to stop and can't have enough of each other. moments come and go. there has to be something more between you and the one you love like devotion and acceptance. moments shouldn't be the reason for being there and staying there, i think. the words stay and fleeting really don't go together.
i have yet to find the one and stop making the mistakes i've made.
i told my friend, and i'm pretty sure, the one is not based on feeling alone. the one is based on choice and is, and always be, a choice.
choose wisely and with your heart. you can't go wrong.
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ang funny. di ko naisip that writing in response to your nobela can actually become an entry. hehe this one's for you pre.
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